Saturday, December 27, 2008

Breastfeeders should not have to hide to protect your delicate sensibilities

Yes, this post is in reference to the Facebook headquarters and virtual nurse-in (if you are unfamiliar with the term nurse-in check this blogger's post), but it is also in reference to all who feel uncomfortable with nursing.

My mother was so uncomfortable with it she wasn't even OK with a woman in a bathroom fully covered by a king size blanket. Fortunately, my mother is not in my life and won't ever be in it again, barring some biblical-sized miracle. :) Ironically for her, I turned out to be quite the exhibitionist by comparison. I had semi-nude maternity photos taken, as a portrait photographer I have taken maternity and nursing portraits, and I nurse flagrantly and uncovered every where I go. I do all of these things because, in my own small way, I want to change the world.




Children should not eat in grody bathrooms, nor should they have to eat under blankets. Women should not feel uncomfortable nourishing their children, whenever or where ever or with their miraculous mother bodies. Shame on you if you think otherwise. Now, I respect the individual comfort of nursing mothers. I do not respect the twisted discomfort some people have with breastfeeding. Something is wrong with you if you see a child eating and think it's sexual or comparable to public urination/defecation.


Now, you may be wondering why nursing photos are so important. Because the US nursing rates are very low, which does put the health of mothers and babies at risk. One of the main reasons we have such nursing rates is because of how stigmatized it is here. A woman wearing a low-cut dress rarely causes a stir, but if you nurse your child in public, you just may be forcibly removed. People need to see breastfeeding. People need to understand that it is beautiful and normal. If we hide it things will never improve and they will probably only get worse. I want children to see me nurse, and I want women to also. I want my body, and your body, to stop being objectified as some pornographic thing.
For further perspective, please check out these excellent links:

Thursday, December 25, 2008

The Christmas Story

I have often felt that, what is to me, the best part of the Nativity story is either not done justice or skipped entirely. To remedy that and based on my personal love and revere for birth, I have written a short story about the most important birth to ever take place. I hope all of my readers have the happiest of Christmases. May this story add to your worship on this most lovely of days.




The Dear Christ Enters In

A short story

Mary looked up at the stars above her. There was still a part of her that couldn’t believe God had chosen her for this. She felt her sweet baby wiggle inside her, her own, and yet a gift to the world. Mary studied the dusty silhouette of her dear Joseph from her place atop the weary donkey. She thought of how tired Joseph must be, yet he had been so kind on this long journey. She still felt a wave of gratitude wash over her whenever she considered his choice to believe her when she said she had known no man. As her belly swelled, he stood faithfully beside her amid the wagging tongues.


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Mary leaned her head against the cold stone wall. She felt gratitude for the inn keeper who had kindly settled them in his stable. She deeply appreciated this peaceful quiet place. She knew these sensations must mean her baby, the Savior, would come soon. This wasn’t how she had imagined welcoming this child—in a damp cave filled with livestock. She missed her mother and other female kin. Could she do this without them, she wondered. Mary moaned, Joseph gently touched her arm while he knelt in front of her. “I don’t think you are supposed to be here for this.” she gasped breathlessly. “Do you want me to go?” he tenderly asked. Mary gasped and said no as she leaned against him. “Oh Joseph, I think it’s time.” Mary cried into his chest for reasons even she couldn’t fully understand. She wondered if this was what she was always meant to do. She remembered her words to the angel “Behold the handmaiden of the Lord”. With one hand she gripped Joseph’s shoulder and moved aside her robes with the other. Then she reached down and felt the son of God’s tiny mortal form slip into her hands. “My baby!” she exclaimed as she brought him to her breast. His dark eyes shone with a wisdom that surprised Mary.


She lay quietly pondering all this in her heart, while Joseph too sensed the change in the cave. He was on hallowed ground. Mary and Joseph saw the tears in each other’s eyes. He had finally come, not only to them, but to the whole world.


Joseph tried to make as comfortable a bed as he could for his beloved Mary and the Christ child. He set about cleaning up the stable; he wanted this place to be as nice as possible for the little king. As he worked, he couldn't take his eyes off his wife and her new baby. How grateful he felt for the angel who told him he should trust her and protect her. How honored he felt to be a part of all this. When he had finished his work, he knelt reverently beside Mary.


“Would you like to hold him?”


Joseph gasped in awe, as he held the tiny baby close. Mary drifted into a light sleep. Joseph still couldn't believe he had been entrusted with all this.


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Mary was gently roused by the soft bleating of a lamb beside her. The young lamb knowingly rubbed its head against the cheek of the new baby. Mary suddenly realized, in a way she had not before, that this baby was the animals’ king too. There was something in the way they were behaving that made Mary think they understood more than the innkeeper had. Joseph saw by their silhouettes that there were shepherds at the door. “Forgive us, but an angel told us we would find him here if we but followed the star.” Mary beckoned them in and said, “Yes, it is as the angel said and the prophets foretold. He really has come.” In overwhelming awe, the shepherds knelt before their king. “He’s come, He’s finally come to us” they whispered with joy and wonder as they looked on his tiny swaddled form. If one paused to listen, one could hear the joy of the angels being expressed through their exultant song. “Joy to the world, the Lord is come!”

Friday, December 19, 2008

Oh NBC...

Good Thing: NBC gave coverage to the Facebook nurse-in and breastfeeding photo censorship.
Bad Thing: NBC quoted Heather (my friend) and used photography of her without contacting her.
Fun Thing: Although not everyone knows this, I do portrait photography. The photo of Heather is one I took up at Sundance during a nursing portrait session in the fall. While I'm obviously not credited, it made me feel good to see it used in the piece.

P.S. I fully support flagrant uncovered breastfeeding anywhere, even on Facebook, please don't post a comment if you dissagree.

Thursday, December 18, 2008

Reflections On Christ


I saw this ad for this book.



I'm a photographer, photography is a medium that speaks to my soul.

The art is surprisingly moving.

Somehow this worshipful and simple photography adds a new reality to the Savior and his life.

The website is well worth exploring.

Oh and don't miss the videos:


Awesome Eggless French Toast

Say what?
That's right my friends I made my best french toast, without eggs, this week. I used ground flax seed. In case you don't know ground flax seed when mixed with water and heated makes a substance very much like eggs. I was out of eggs and I knew this fact and that many people use it as an egg substitute in baking. using the flax and water mixture, I added most of the usual other ingredients for french toast. (I confess I did add some things you would never expect) But it's worked beautifully. When I can figure out exact measurements I will post a recipe. Until then I firmly believe we should all add flax seed or ground flax seed to our emergency supplies. It can replace oil in baked good too. Just think with flour, salt, water, and flax, your baking possibilities are almost limitless. (Well you would also need sweetener, vanilla, a milky substance, cinnamon and cocoa.) But get all of those things and you could bake almost anything you might desire.
Neat, right?

Monday, December 15, 2008

I Think I Understand Now

So we've been to the Gingerbread Festival and the Festival of Trees. We put up decorations. We attended ward Christmas functions. We watched Christmas movies. But I realized a few days ago that I didn't feel "Christmasy". I wondered what was wrong with me. Was it ending things with my parents this year? Was it the almost utter lack of Christmas shopping? (We wanted a less present centric Christmas this year)
Then I realized we weren't hurried or worried this season. We haven't done Christmas cards. (Though I think we may have always skipped that) So far I've only bought a gift for Eve, though I do plan on buying more. We've spent a lot of time just the three of us. I started a story about Jesus's birth. I realized I felt peace and worship this season. Then on Saturday we had an impromptu "Christmas Party" with an other dear family. We watched Elf and ate delightful food. I felt very "Christmasy" on the way home afterwards. Then the Christmas program during church yesterday really reached me as none other ever has. So I think I finally understand now. The Christmas Spirit, come from The Holy Spirit. Feeling Christmasy comes from spending special time with those you love. It's taken my whole life to understand that. I truly believe that learning these things will make this my best Christmas ever. This year I am content and grateful, that should make all the difference.

Friday, December 5, 2008

The Festival of Trees


Now through Saturday is the annual Festival of Trees. Every penny raised goes to help children in need at Primary Children’s Medical Center.
Have fun and do good. Yes it is in Sandy, but don't forget the doing good part.
The information below is from their website


December 3-6, 2008 (Wednesday through Saturday) 10:00 a.m. to 10:00 p.m. each day

South Towne Exposition Center
9575 South State Street, Sandy, Utah 84070

TICKETS: At the door--$4.00 for adults, $3.00 for children ages 2-11 and seniors;
Discount tickets--$3.50 for adults; $2.50 for children (available at Zions Banks)
Attractions
TREES: More than 800 decorated Christmas trees of every size, shape, variety and theme.
AISLE OF WREATHS: Wreaths, door decorations, and outdoor display items
SWEET SHOPPE: Fudge, divinity, pecan rolls, popcorn balls, pretzels, suckers, penuche, caramels, dipped chocolates, caramel apples and all kinds of breads
SMALL FRY: Small items priced for a child's budget.
GINGERBREAD VILLAGE: Wonderful creations from cottages to castles!
CENTERPIECES AND COLLECTIBLES: Centerpieces, table and mantel decorations, and collectibles
FESTIVAL HOST/HOSTESS: Volunteers needed to host
TICKETS: Sell Festival tickets in your area - to businesses, families, and community groups. Discount price: Adults $3.50, Children $2.50
PLAYHOUSE PLAZA: Child-sized dream houses, gazebos, dollhouses, and children's furniture
HOT SCONES AND SWEET ROLLS: Piping hot scones and sweet rolls served fresh
SANTA LAND: Santa will be available to hear each child's wish list and pose for photos.
KIDS KORNER: Face painting, bubble machine, and other fun activities for children
ENTERTAINMENT: Singers, dancers, and instrumentalists entertain from 10:15 a.m. to 10:00 p.m. each day
FRIENDSHIP TREE: Purchase cards as a tribute for someone special.

HISTORY:
For 38 years, the Festival of Trees has been a “Gift of Love” from Utah to children. The Festival is organized by a volunteer board of 84 women who enlist time and talents from thousands of individuals, organizations, businesses, and families throughout Utah. Over $22 million has been raised for needy children at Primary Children’s Medical Center through the Festival since 1971, with $1,604,021.64 raised last year.

Thursday, December 4, 2008

To Those of You Who Voted For Obama...

We picked the right one.
How Barack Obama and George W. Bush spent the day before U.S. Thanksgiving

Obama Family's Thanksgiving Food Drive Visit (SLIDESHOW, VIDEO)

Nice photos from the day.

I love that he treated the people with kindness and respect.
I love that he wanted his girls to understand how fortunate they are and to give back to their community.
I love that he used his notoriety to highlight the plight of those in need.
I love that the people coming to get food didn't know he would be there.
I love that he turned to his wife and, surprised the secret service, suggested and subsequently spontaneously visited the school children.
I love the way he treats children.
I love that his family did this before he was president elect too.
I love that this is the sort of man who will be our next president, by their works yea shall know them.
I love that I voted for him!

Tuesday, December 2, 2008

Thank You Elder Wirthlin


I just learned of the passing of dear Elder Joseph B. Wirthlin, the oldest living apostle of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. He passed away in his sleep on December 2. He was a marvelous teacher and his manner taught as much as his words. His talk "The Great Commandment" and what happened during it, was as moving as it was unforgettable. His "Concern For the One" talk was really healing for me. (Thanks Carrie)

I find it most telling of all that his final words to us were in "Come What May, and Love it"

I am grateful that he has finally been reunited with his beloved Elisa.

Thanks you Elder Wirthlin for all you taught us in both word and deed

Thursday, November 13, 2008

A Birthday Present

I was reading in the back of the November 2008 Ensign. Apparently when asked President Thomas S. Monson has said that the ideal birthday present for him from the members of the church would be to find someone is having a hard time and do something for them. I was really touched that that was his reply without a moments hesitation. I may not understand everything about the gospel or the workings of my church, but I know President Monson is a man I can trust and a Prophet of God. I love him and I am grateful to have him as the leader of my Church. Also I would love to "give him" such a birthday present. Come to think of it there is a rather special Birthday celebration next month. I'm sure that the one we celebrate and honor that day would love a such a gift Himself.

Tuesday, November 11, 2008

Today is Veterans Day

I would like to say thanks to everyone who has or is currently serving and their families. You have made amazing sacrifises both great and small.
We cannot ever forget all you've done and given us, our country, and the world.


Watch CBS Videos Online

A Very Interesting Video

I'm Not Sure If I Like This Bloggers Tone....

It's not kind enough for my taste, but I did think this blogger made some interesting points.
http://beetlebabee.wordpress.com/

Now I do understand why people would react with anger.
I can imagine why they would feel hurt.
Yet hurting another, because you feel hurt, is beneath all of us.
Mormons are far from the majority in the state of California.
The credit or blame for the outcome on proposition 8 cannot fall solely on them.
I would also like to say, that there are all kinds of restrictions on state sanctioned marriage. Fathers can't marry their daughters, a ten year old can't marry a thirty year old. My church is not against homosexuals having any legal rights.
This was about the legal requirements of a licence. A marriage license.


To any GLBT person or one of their supporters who happen on this blog post:
I love and respect you as a child of God. I'm sorry for the pain and anger you may be feeling right now. I don't have all the answers. Please don't be angry over our difference of perspective, anger will only make the pain worse. You are welcome to share what you feel in my comments section. Despite your distress over this issue please don't cease to be the kind good hearted people I have known and loved you to be.

What a Great Fortnight

I have taken no picture during this time.
I just forgot.
Weird, I know... Yes I am a portrait photographer.
So there was the fun of Halloween dress up.
We dressed up as Jack and Jill with our little girl as "A Pail of Water"
Lest I sound terribly creative, these costumes consisted of construction paper crowns with Jack and Jill written on them.
As Jack and Jill, we both wore the same colored tee-shirts and jeans.
The "Pail of Water" costume consisted of a blue top and brown pants.
I cut out a bucket shape from brown contact paper, wrote "A Pail of Water" on the bucket, and stuck it to her shirt.
Hubbie and I sported fake bruises from our "fall"
We wore this costume to our friends costume birthday party and to the ward party.
Our second costume was a family of green faced, red haired, silver antennaed martians. Why were we martians? I'll get back to that.

A day or two before Halloween, we went out to dinner at La Carreta in American Fork.
The food, service, and environment were impeccable. Sadly the place was empty besides our little party of three. We used our Starving Student card and got buy one get one Lomo Saltado. Afterwards we went to Cornbelly's. We got in half price thanks to our Thanksgiving Point Property Membership. Our daughter was tuckered out so we didn't end up doing everything, but we still had a lot of fun. We didn't spend much time in the corn maze, but we enjoyed the other play areas very much. I loved the cow train, slides, jumping pillow, and the Creature. I don't know if the experience is worth $20, but is was certainly worth $10. :D

This Halloween was the best Halloween yet. We went up to Park City to the Washington School House Inn. They turn their inn into a haunted house for the tricker treaters. If you participate in the haunt you get a half price stay, dinner, and breakfast. We had fun helping set up, and then we had fun being in the space portion of the haunt as a family of martians. Our spiel was about how good trick or treaters taste. Our little daughter spooked some and delighted others. We had so much fun. Everyone was impressed with how well she handled being in the haunt, they didn't know it was thanks to nursing. ;) The Inn management made a special exception for our family, since normally they only allow 18 and up to stay at the inn. They were ever so nice and accommodating. Breakfast was delicious and fun to see everyone out of costume. I highly recommend the inn, although the beds could be bit softer for my taste.
I loved that the inn tries to be environmentally friendly.

The following Monday I made a support sign for RaDene Hatfield and participated in a honk and wave.
Tuesday night I spent the evening with dear friends and my little family.
It felt like New Years and Christmas rolled into one. It was one of the most wonderful nights of my life. I have never voted out of hope rather than fear before. It was a wonderful feeling. We shouted and cried for joy. We shared great food and a sparkling cider toast. When we got home I posted Obama's amazing speech on my blog, signs in my window, and sent an email to someone who's friendship I had lost exactly four years before. When I woke up all was mended with my friend. Wednesday felt amazing, almost like when I woke up after Eve's birth.

Over the weekend Eve got the stomach flu. Fortunately she only threw up twice, once all over the back seat of the car on the way to a birthday party and the other time it landed on my face/mouth and hair/body. Thank goodness she is still breastfeeding. (1) Because breatmilk is so quickly digested, I knew she was still getting nutrients, (2) Because she's been refusing solids due to nausea, (3) Brestmilk vomit is a lot less disgusting, than solids vomit.

And I must admit I love Facebook. I have been reconnecting with people I haven't spoken to in years.

Other people have taken pictures of us so perhaps I'll be able to post them later.

Great Interview

http://www.celebrity-babies.com/2008/05/melora-hardin-o.html

Thursday, November 6, 2008

Sigh...


So I realized today that I haven't taken any pictures of my family since September.
I haven't really written anything about my daughter either. You know when I was pregnant I had such high hopes that I would do a good job documenting her life. Sadly I have kind of failed. I feel bad about that. Her firsts are all a bit iffy in my memory. I'm surrounded by avid scrapbookers. I have two blank scrapbooks. I'm just not a documentor. But I feel so guilty about it. I love my sweet girl she delights me every day. We laugh together everyday. I love it when she takes my hand and leads me to what she needs to show me. I love that she is using more words everyday. I love that she is so adventurous, rough and tumble. She is so clever. How can anyone not be in awe of their own child. It feels like magic to consider that two items invisible to the naked eye became this incredible little person. I look at her in wonder and smile when I consider that the stretching rolling mass beneath the surface all those months was her.

Wednesday, November 5, 2008

Yes We Did!!!



Change We Believed In!
This was such an amazing speech. I look forward to the coming dawn, when we can see the sun shine down on the change that has come to America!
We the people have truly seen that, Yes We Can!

Tuesday, November 4, 2008

Monday, November 3, 2008

Please Check Out This Post:

http://alisaterry.blogspot.com/2008/11/lds-official-calls-for-more-political.html

Thursday, October 30, 2008

Do Not Vote For Curt Bramble

I have had my own run in with this man and was saddened tonight to read of the accounts of many others.
I'll start with my story.
My Story:
I went to the capitol crazy early in the morning with my 10 month old last winter.
I was there to show I cared about an issue in committee. I sent in notes to let my Representatives know I had come. Bramble is one of them. I knew he could be rude and scary, so I said I didn't need to speak with him, I just wanted him to know that one of his constituents cared enough to come. well as I was leaving a Paige came and said he had done something very rare and had come out to speak with me. Feeling a little terrified I came near to where he was. He never left the door to the Senate chamber, he did not introduce himself. We were about 10 or fifteen feet apart. I told him I was sorry for bothering him and I hadn't asked for him to come out; thanks for his time - remember, terrified! I told him about the effects of the bill, and then some lobbyists stepped and interrupted our conversation, contradicting me. He said, "You re telling me this number, they're telling this number. What's that all about?" barking at me - you know, 15 feet apart. And I said that I didn't know where they were getting their numbers from. The lobbyists repeated their fallacious stance, and Bramble said, "YOU TWO NEED TO GET YOUR FACTS STRAIGHT. YOU TWO NEED TO TALK!" I said (in as gentle a manner as I could), "All right, thank you for your time, sir" and turned to go. But he said, "No! I said you two need to talk! You need to talk." Then he turned to go back into the session, and the lobbyists turned on me.
Wouldn't it be nice if I was the only one to have this kind of interaction?
But don't forget there was a reason I was afraid of him to begin with. Well I know of a certain bill and it's opponents who contacted their representative (Bramble). Enough people cared about this bill that he had many people contact him to let him know how his constituents felt. Guess what he did?................ He told them that if they contacted him again he would vote against their wishes to spite them.

Other people's stories:
http://cartoonbrickwall.blogspot.com/2008/08/my-run-in-with-majority-leader-in-utah.htmlIn the comments section on this blog post are more tales of this man. It took me forever to read through all the comments.
Use control and F to find, ICANCU, ejemory, Valley, Big Josh Stud, deb, Chelise, The Kay's, Scot, Johnnyboy84604. So many people have had sorry tales to tell of his behavor. I hope there is a wonderful side to him we are just largely unaware of, but he doesn't show it to his constituency or "the little people" he interacts with, which says to me he needs to be removed from office.

For some more interesting reading on this matter check out:

http://news.google.com/news?q=curt+bramble&rls=com.microsoft:*&ie=UTF-8&oe=UTF-8&um=1&hl=en&sa=X&oi=news_group&resnum=11&ct=titlehttp://www.accountabilityutah.org/IssuesAlerts/News/2004/Bramble101004.pdf http://www.votesmart.org/bio.php?can_id=50308

To learn more about the alternative visit www.RaDene.com

Please note I don't want to trash on an individual who is a child of God. I just think His position should be filled by someone else. I'm sure he has value and has done good things in his life, most people have. But please we the citizens of Provo deserve better.

Wednesday, October 29, 2008

The joy of blog hopping and proposition 8

I googled about getting a haircut in Provo, I figured it would bring up local blogs and their reviews of local hair salons. It did and I came across a blog I really liked and on said blog were many articulate posts on Proposition 8. http://sarahandtim.wordpress.com/

I found this post especially astute.

I realize I should take a moment to say I fully support The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints's stance against homosexual marriage. Found here: http://newsroom.lds.org/ldsnewsroom/eng/commentary/same-sex-marriage-and-proposition-8
And here:
http://newsroom.lds.org/ldsnewsroom/eng/commentary/the-divine-institution-of-marriage

We must support what is right, but always in an intelligent and kind way.
I have known many wonderful homosexuals and the lovely people they have wanted to spend their lives with, but I cannot condone state sanctioned marriage for them. Proposition 8 is very important.


As a side note:
John McCain believes this is a matter best left up to the states, voting for him just because of his views on homosexual marriage is rather pointless.
I'll admit that it is one of the reasions I voted for President Bush, but plenty of homosexual marriages have happened during his administration and the country's gone to pot in many other ways thanks directly to his work. So I ask where the benefit is in voting for a Republican on this matter?
FYI Obama and Biden both oppose homosexual marriage too.

Monday, October 27, 2008

Happy Halloween


Helpful Halloween Sites:
www.marthastewart.com/halloween
familyfun.go.com/parties/holiday/minisite/halloween-main/halloween-main.html
http://www.benjerry.com/halloween/
http://holidays.kaboose.com/halloween/
http://www.holidays.net/halloween/index.htm
www.greenhalloween.org/

Voting Record

So I was at a blog today that clamed that people who love Obama probably don't know anything about his voting. So I decided would go read his voting record. Most of the votes he's skipped voting on were in relation to Cloture. After reading what cloture is, I don't really care about him skipping the vote on those. What cared about was what he has voted on, I haven't come across anything on his voting record I really disagree with.
Now if you haven't already, go inform yourself.

http://www.votesmart.org/voting_category.php?can_id=9490
http://projects.washingtonpost.com/congress/members/o000167/votes/
http://obama.senate.gov/votes/
http://factcheck.barackobama.com/factcheck/2008/01/14/obamas_strong_record_of_accomp.php

In an effort to be fare and truly well informed, check these out too.
http://projects.washingtonpost.com/congress/members/m000303/
http://www.votesmart.org/summary.php?can_id=53270
I'm sorry I can't bring myself to post a link to McCain's site on my blog.
You should probably visit his site though, it seems only fair to read his own description of himself.

Well, That Is Interesting....

So one of the matters that seems to tarnish Obama is the number of votes he has missed in the Senate. Well I just came across something very interesting http://projects.washingtonpost.com/congress/110/senate/vote-missers/

Did you see who is at the top of that list?
Now I'm not making this to be a lesser of two evil things.
When I scan down the list this matter doesn't seem indicative of a great politician and who's a good man or woman. I take issue with many of the actions of Senator Ted Stevens of Alaska, and he's only missed 3.8%.
Still for those who this matter is a big hangup for them.....
*Shrug* ;)

Monday, October 20, 2008

2 Nephi 1:13

O that ye would awake; awake from a deep sleep, yea, even from the sleep of hell, and shake off the awful chains by which ye are bound, which are the chains which bind the children of men, that they are carried away captive down to the eternal gulf of misery and woe.

[I just read this during my scripture time today. I thought it was poetic and thought provoking]

I Love "Pushing Daisies"!



ABC's Pushing Daisies is back this season, even more enjoyable and so far cleaner than last season. DH and I just love this show, it's so clever, witty, sweet, and macabre. But I fear that without more fanfare it may get canceled. So here is my little bit to help. It comes on Wednesday nights, but we usually watch it the next day, on ABC's video player the next day.

Oh That I Were So Articulate...



These are my favorite quotes:

"...all villages have values, all towns have values, not just small towns have values."

" I'm also troubled by, not what Senator McCain says, but what members of the party say. And it is permitted to be said such things as, "Well, you know that Mr. Obama is a Muslim." Well, the correct answer is, he is not a Muslim, he's a Christian. He's always been a Christian. But the really right answer is, what if he is? Is there something wrong with being a Muslim in this country? The answer's no, that's not America. Is there something wrong with some seven-year-old Muslim-American kid believing that he or she could be president? Yet, I have heard senior members of my own party drop the suggestion, "He's a Muslim and he might be associated terrorists." This is not the way we should be doing it in America."

Wednesday, October 15, 2008

Easy as pie?


Despite the saying ""easy as pie", I didn't use to find pie making easy. Until I found a tasty and flaky pie crust recipe in an old Better Homes and Gardens magazine.

If you love pie this recipe can be life changing. This recipe makes pie making so easy, I have at times made pies bi-weekly. We have even used it to make savory tarts by using olive oil and leaving out the sugar. Oh and do remember if it seems too dry, add more liquid. It should be putty like, not so dry it can't stick together.


No-Roll Pie Crust: In a bowl stir together 2-1/2 cups all-purpose flour, 2 tablespoons sugar, and 1/2 teaspoon salt. In a small bowl stir together 1/2 cup cooking oil and 1/3 cup milk; add all at once to flour mixture. Stir with fork until dough mixture comes together.


Pat half of the dough into the pie pan, fill, and pat the rest of the dough into rough circles or wedges to cover the top of the pie. Bake until golden brown at 375.


Having the crust be so easy has freed me up to be more creative with my pie fillings.

I have made:


  • Cinnamon honey rhubarb apple pie

  • Spiced pineapple peach pie

  • Fresh sugar pumpkin chunk and apple pie
  • Blueberry peach pie

Happy fall pie making season to you all!

Tuesday, October 14, 2008

A moment of sweetness..

(the sweet newborn face of my toddler)
I went to kirtsy.com today. I'm still not sure exactly what it is, but there I found some things too beautiful not to share.


http://www.cnn.com/2008/LIVING/personal/10/13/holocaust.love.story.ap/index.html


http://mackink.blogspot.com/2008/09/made.html


http://mackink.blogspot.com/2008/10/my-hero.html


The last link made me cry. It is one of the saddest and sweetest things I have ever read.
The beauty of the people mentioned in the above links/stories inspire me to want to be a better person. My personal goal is to see the good that surrounds me and always be unfailingly kind.



As I look at my at my living room, I see the evidence of the happy life lived by a beloved and hilarious toddler. I am so grateful for my life.

Friday, October 10, 2008

Catching Wild Yeasties.


So when my friend Alisa started making her own bread starter, I thought it sounded too complicated and time consuming. But then I tasted her delicious bread... Well I did some research. I made a starter. I caught wild yeasties. Each region wild yeast has it's own unique flavor. I think Utah has quite tasty yeast. The best part is this is by far the easiest bread making ever. I also enjoy sharing the kneading process with my little one. Sure she isn't really kneading the bread, just pressing her hands in it, but it makes my heart happy. As an added bonus I have a legal pet now too. You feed it everyday and it makes you lovely bread. A very nice relationship indeed. Alisa named her Harry Potter, because "it's so magical". I named mine after some of my favorite female characters: Lucy Zuzu Alexandria. Lucy, from Chronicles of Narnia. Zuzu, from It's a Wonderful Life. Alexandria, from Alex and the Ironic Gentlemen.
If you read up on this it may sound complicated, but don't be fooled.

  • You make a batter out of equal parts flour and filtered water. (chlorine can kill your yeast)
  • Place it in a plastic or glass container, outside or by an open window.
  • Be sure to cover it with a cloth to keep out the bugs.
  • Feed it equal parts water and flour everyday.
  • When it's bubbly and noticeably grown, you have caught wild yeasties and can bake with it.
  • It should smell like yeast or wine, not poo or mold. (If it gets moldy toss it.)

When I make bread I just mix some starter with flour, then add salt and sweetener. I knead it for 10 minutes, let it rise, and then bake it. So easy, I love it.

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20080719212107AAKKMhq

http://alisaterry.blogspot.com/search/label/Bread

Thursday, October 9, 2008

Let's Be Nice People

So I just watched the movie Crawford on Hulu. It was a good documentary, that I didn't find terribly one sided either. It just seemed like just the story of a town and how it was altered by a new neighbor. In case you know, the new neighbor was George W. Bush. My understanding is that he bought a ranch there shortly before his first presidential run. Since I have changed so much in the last 8 years, it was interesting to see the events unfold with my new eyes. I felt a new understanding for the people who lived in the town, the protesters of Bush's presidency and the fervent supporters of the war his presidency. Each side could and was rude,cruel and disrespectful. At time we get passionate and prideful on a matter feel the ends justify the means. They don't, being respectful and compassionate will always be the better part. No matter where you stand please take the time and effort to be truthful, kind, and empathetic. Individual issues will never matter more than that. Please let us be a people of love, irregardless of our fears for what the future may hold.

Friday, October 3, 2008

The $80,000 Squidoo Charity Giveaway

http://www.squidoo.com/squidoo-charity-giveaway
Visit the site above and vote for the charity of your choice.
I voted for Le Leche League. This is nice easy way to do some good today.

Thursday, September 25, 2008

This is why I don't want another Republican President.





And if you don't have the time or inclination to go skim these articles, you shouldn't be voting.


I have been trying to understand the average devote Republican's stance of late. All I've been able to come up with is money/greed, abortion, homosexual marriage. I believe that the above article trumps that. I hope our next president cares about constitutional rights, for that matter I hope you do too.

Wednesday, September 24, 2008

Bread and Circuses

bread and circuses
pl.n.
Offerings, such as benefits or entertainments, intended to placate discontent or distract attention from a policy or situation.
[Translation of Latin pnem et circnss, a phrase coined by the Roman poet Juvenal : pnem, accusative singular of pnis, bread + et, and + circnss, circus games.]

See Also: Republican Party, Walmart, and Television

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In an article on this topic I came upon a Benjamin Franklin story in which as an infirm 81-year old he was carried out on a "sedan" from Independence Hall in Philadelphia on September 17, 1787 after he and the other 38 delegates had signed the Constitution:

"What kind of government do we have, Mr. Franklin?"
"A republic," the elderly statesman, writer and scientist replied, ". . .if you can keep it. . ."

To read the original article visit http://www.thomasjamesmartin.com/breadcircus.htm


I care about this election as I have never cared before, bearing in mind that last time I stayed up all night to see the results. I feel like such a changed woman. But sadly I fear that America has not changed with me. I will be unspeakably horrified if McCain wins, though mostly I will be disappointed in my fellow Americans. I can't believe that this whole election may come down to abortion and homosexual marriage... Until I remember why I voted for Bush the first time. I just pray that I'm not the only person who has woken up and started caring about more than bread and circuses.

Tuesday, September 9, 2008

Motherhood and The Gospel


Yesterday was a tough day. Motherhood can be like that sometimes. I felt like I was reaching my limits. But then I turned on hymns and started cleaning the house. I came across my scriptures and I sat down and felt this wave of gratitude and peace wash over me. The Gospel is so soothing. I am so grateful for the restoration of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. How I wish that every one would embrace this gospel and find the purpose and joy that I have. I have no idea how an atheist mothers get through the day. I'm not sure how I would get through the day without even hymns. They are my lullabies and my meditation. Worship can be surprisingly soothing. The calm that comes over a stormy day is nothing less than miraculous. In honor of that I'm putting my hymns play list on my blog. perhaps it will bring some much needed peace to a fellow mothers day. Here's to the strength divinely placed in us by a loving Heavenly Father that see us through even the toughest days. And on those challenging days don't forget that He is there along with the Holy Ghost if we will but seek.

Wednesday, September 3, 2008

I'm Not a Democrat But...

I doubt I'll ever vote Republican again. I am so tired of how selfish the party is as a whole. Nothing matters to them but money and big business. I am tired of watching Bush mess up our great nation. In case you're wondering, yes I voted for him. And I am a completely different person that I was 8 years ago, let alone 4. I care about so much more, and he's done such horrific things I couldn't even imagine at the time. I even lost a friendship over my voting record, I wonder what she would think of who I am today. Motherhood has certainly changed me. So has the crunchy lifestyle I've espoused. For all the religious right rhetoric, the Democrats sound like better Christians. I am dumbfounded at how callous the Republican party sounds. They don't care about the environment, health care, the poor/needy/hungry, immigrants aka human beings, peace, kindness, world relations... The list seems endless. I can't believe I've even stumped for their party once (head shake and sigh)
Now of course the Democrats have their problems too. Still it just sounds like they care more. I may not believe in everything Obama says, but I feel I can trust him with our country. He cared about Darfur before most people even knew about it. I think he genuinely wants to improve things. I believe that on some level he really cares. I can't believe that about McCain.
Romney was/is the perfect example of what's wrong with the Republican party. I would have had an easier time with him if he wasn't LDS. Because he's LDS I know he knows better than he acts or sounds. During the debates he was the least Christan sounding man on stage. His voting and speech record highlighted his lack of integrity. I never once heard him say anything that reflected well on our church or him being a disciple of Christ.
We have a great privilege in our right to vote. That vote is powerful and it should be used to make the world a better place.


And to the republican party:
I'm sorry but being against homosexual marriage and abortion just aren't enough to get my vote anymore, nor do they make you qualified to be president. Oh and don't be thinking that just because you found some inexperienced pushover of a female to be vp that, that will turn my pretty little head. I would appreciate a lot more respect for my female intelligence.
Thank you.

Tuesday, September 2, 2008

True Compassion

May we all be so Christlike... Mindy Carter-Shaw and her son are definitely people worth emulating. I just learned about them in this Deseret News piece.
http://deseretnews.com/article/1,5143,700255622,00.html?pg=1

(If the link fails Google her name, you'll be glad you did)

Monday, August 25, 2008

I Need Another Certifying Birth

I am well into my doula studies. To certify in my course I need to be the doula at another birth. My last client birthed in April. So far, with motherhood, I haven't found another client. So to anyone reading my blog please put the word out. I'm so available. This summer felt like it needed to be mom time, but this fall seems like the time to doula. If you have any questions please feel free to leave them in the comments section below.

Tuesday, August 19, 2008

All Hail, The Mighty Diva Cup!


OK, so menstruation has always been very unpleasant. I always leak. Spot the bed. My flow is very heavy. No tampon or pad is enough for even a few hours. Menstruation after having a baby has been ever more intense. Then I got the Diva Cup.

The Diva Cup is amazing! I am clean. There is no mess. Being clean down there feels SO much better. It made me sore, my flow must be acidic or something. Now it may not sound or look miraculous, but it is. This is by far the best period I've ever had. True I still feel like a slug. But not being sore, soiled, or even having to worry about spotting, is wonderful!!! And you can even pick it up on select store shelves. I picked mine up on Friday, when I felt this was coming. It was so nice to not have to wait for shipping. When you read the directions it sounds complicated. I have found it easier and more comfortable than a tampon. It sounds messier than a tampon or a pad, but my hands and girly bits are in fact so much cleaner. I love it so much I just had to share.

Check it out at: http://www.divacup.com/

To find a store near you that carries it visit: http://www.divacup.com/en/search/

Monday, August 18, 2008

Why We Have Children.


Because they bring joy to this world and lighten the darkness with their light so fresh from heaven. My baby girl may not perform perfectly in every area, like trained show pony, but she definitely has got it together where is counts. Here are some examples:



  • She loves people. She freely shows her affection to even complete strangers.

  • She is kind and motherly to her doll and stuffed animals. The other day she comforted, verbally soothed and rocker her doll.

  • Yesterday she said please and later practice saying thank you... We haven't taught her to say this she just picked it up.

  • Last night was bad. I was feeling very low. Then she look up at me, smiled and handed me a card from a set of conversation cards. The card said: name 5 things that make you smile. I was so touched and awed by her timing..

This is why we have children. They make our lives and world better. They teach us by example, a better way to live. A life filled with love, joy, and wonder. No wonder the Savior said we should be like them. I want to be as good a person as my daughter and look forward to having and knowing many more sweet children like her.


Monday, August 4, 2008

The Newest Extreme Sport "Cave Nursing"


My friend Shannon came up with this title and said I should post about on my blog.

DH and I climbed Mount Timpanogos on Friday.
You are not allowed to bring strollers.
Oh wait we don't have a stroller. he-he
Our daughter was in the wrap on DH on the way up. When we got to the cave she wanted to nurse. So we switched the wrap to me and I latched her on, then off we went on the tour.
now this tour is fairly easy, but there are a number of places where you have to hunch, twist, squat, duck, and walk bent over for about twenty feet. I did and I did it all wile nursing a 15 month old. (I seriously have no idea how people manage without soft structure carriers.) Then I walked down the mountain with her fast asleep and still nursing in the wrap.
It was fun and tough. I highly recommend doing it... With a wrap.
To see how a wrap works visit: http://www.mobywrap.com/t-instructions.aspx
To make your own wrap check out: http://www.mamatoto.org/Default.aspx?tabid=121
Or google "Baby Wrap"

Things I have breastfed.....


My friend is doing a great series on breastfeeding on her blog in honor of it.
In honor of it, I thought I would do a light hearted piece on the things my daughter has wanted me to breastfeed. When you read this keep in mind I am an not embarrassed or appalled by this. I think it's sweet and at times down right hilarious.
One day she brought me her much beloved doll and I think requested that I breastfeed said doll. Now if she wasn't actually making this request, then I'm the one who started what follows.
I have had put to my nipple by my daughter:
  • The fairy figurine pictured above.
  • A stuffed rabbit.
  • a crocheted banana.
  • A wood carved elephant on wheels
  • A baby shower invitation.
  • Basically any toy, stuffed animal, doll or object that she holds dear.

Yesterday I knew I needed to blog about this when I was sitting with here in the foyer at church. And when I offered her my breast, she put her plastic little people turkey to my nipple instead of her mouth. Which then elicited me to say: "I will nurse you, but I will not nurse your turkey at church". Funny how you hear yourself saying things you never imagined as a mother. Also at one point in my life I didn't want to nurse, it scared me. But I will tell you right now. I love it. Breastfeeding is wonderful, funny, sweet, bonding, healthy, and beautiful. Hooray for World Breastfeeding Week!

Thursday, July 31, 2008

More About Dr Horrible

At this point I've lost track as to how many times I've watched it.
But now you can watch it for free from the Dr Horrible website or on hulu.com
Anyway you have to see it... You've already seen it? Well, then go watch it again. But this time sing along, it's more fun that way.

Wednesday, July 23, 2008

Dr Horrible's Sing-Along-Blog

I love this online tv miniseries so much. It's so clever and endearing. I love the music. You can get if off itunes for only 4 dollars, if you buy the season pass. It's only avaiable on itunes till the 29 of July.
Go, learn more, and fall in love with it too.

Monday, July 21, 2008

FineTune

While blog hopping Saturday I found the funnest blog widget. It's a unique music player from finetune.com. I spent more time there today than I would like to admit, but I had a wonderful time. Their selection is fantastic and well organized. Their site is very user friendly. The sound quality is great too. I just installed their widget on my blog. I hope you enjoy the new tunes, as much a I do. I highly recommend checking out their site. It felt like a walk down memory lane and I loved it.

Wednesday, July 16, 2008

The Living Planet Aquarium (Preview Exhibit)

The Living Planet Aquarium (Preview Exhibit) is located in Sandy Utah. It's a fabulous little aquarium with big dreams. My husband and I bought a membership and have enjoyed every visit. Every time we've gone, they've made improvements or a new exhibit. Now I have been to bigger fancier aquariums, but none have had the creativity and heart that this one has. The place is really beautiful. Their creativity with such a small space is astounding. I think they made over an old grocery store. To go once is about $8 for an adult, but to buy a one year membership is $15 for on adult. To learn more about this fun place visit http://www.thelivingplanet.com/

I forgot to mention parts our sweet girl has enjoyed. She has gotten to touch a stingray, ogle fish, steer a boat, and play in their coral reef play area. She always has as good a time as we do, but since she is under two she is free!

My Friend Alisa




I love my friend Alisa. This post is a tribute piece to her. Who couldn't use be talked up, and She certainly deserves to be. Many years ago when I first heard Alisa speak, I admired her deeply. I wanted to start her fan club. ;) Then we had her and her husband over for dinner. They invited us over for ice cream. This continued as our families lives intertwined. We've spent good times and rough times together. We have seen each other though so much. Holidays, babies, my birth, her labor, our collective struggles and triumphs. She has grace, humor, strength, courage, conscience, testimony, wisdom, dignity, and integrity. She has had a dramatic effect on my life and I wouldn't be the woman I am today without her. Thank you, Alisa. Below is a list of just some of the ways she changed my life for the better.
  • She believed me and supported me when it came to my crazy family.


  • She publicly defended my decisions with said crazy family.


  • She helped get DH in to school of his dreams.


  • Her home has been a refuge and landing place.


  • When our fiances were very tight, her and her husband just showed up with food and filled our cupboards.


  • Her and her husband have always had our backs. They are the first to share in our triumphs and heartaches.


  • She has taught me a lot about Heavenly Father and his love for us.


  • Her honesty and grace has taught me a lot about mental health issues.


  • She took me to my first Le Leche League meeting. (the meeting was canceled, but I learned what it was because of her.)


  • She was the first person to talk to me about homebirth and women's bodies in birth.


  • She showed me stories about unassisted childbirth. Those stories sparked the, then dormant, desire in me to have children.


  • She enlightened me about yoga, circumcision, vaccinations, baby wearing, co sleeping, cloth diapers, breastfeeding, Attachment Parenting..... This list just might be endless, and I am very grateful.


  • She introduced me to the AP playgroup Mamas.


  • She always hugs me goodbye and it makes me feel loved.


  • And one last thing, she may find surprising, her marriage is inspiring. Here is why, they have stuck out together, every piece of crap that's happened to them. Their marriage and love for each other, is rather Phoenix like and I admire that.

As I said this is just a small list of some of the wonderful things she shown, taught, and given me.

She is one of the most delightful and remarkable woman I have ever met.

Thanks for all the fun times we've shared Alisa, my life just wouldn't be the same without you.

To learn more about Alisa, visit her blog Escaping To My Happy Place

Friday, July 11, 2008

Holy Writ

So today I was reading on a message board at imdb.com, and I came across a post to blog about. The author of said post felt that All holy books (including the Book of Mormon) were largely without merit and caused more harm than good. He felt that in generally we should do away with them and turn wholly to secular literature. At first I found the poster ignorant and repugnant, but then I felt great pitty. I felt sad that he/she had never experienced the power and beauty that said books have to offer. Also the idea that holy books cause harm and should be shunned, is so patently ridiculous. At the very least I see them as beautiful tools and handbooks. If you read a handbook and get a paper cut, is it a harmful book? Or think about a knife, knifes are useful tools. But you could hurt someone badly with a knife. With this persons line of thinking perhaps knifes are without merit too.
Powerful, beautiful, words from a loving Father in Heaven are not the root of the worlds ills. Just because people take something and use it too hurt people, doesn't make that thing harmful and without value. I am left shaking my head at this line of thinking. But I believe the real reason why this idea is so popular, is because of guilty consciences. If you can discredit holy writ, then there are no commandments to follow. Righteousness can be very fluid "idea". Effort for change or betterment needn't be taken. Growing and improving is at the very least uncomfortable and inconvenient. How carefully we are led away with vain imaginings and flaxen cords. But if everyone would read say the Book of Mormon with an open heart. This idea would have no foothold. Ignorance is sadly one of Lucifer's greatest weapons.

Tuesday, July 8, 2008

Love-Love-Love

I'm in love, I'm in love, and I don't care who knows it! -Buddy The Elf
So I am madly in love with my dear husband. He is such a wonderful man! This year we will celebrate our 6th wedding anniversary. I love him even more now, than the day I married him. In honor of that love I thought I would share some things that have been a part of our love story. Perhaps they'll help in your love story too.
If any of you readers have ever noticed the signs on our bedroom and bathroom doors and wondered about their origin, look no further than lovingyou.com. This website is full of fabulous romantic ideas.
This site has led to many a romantic getaway. I personally recommend the Providence Inn near Logan, and the Manti House Inn in Manti. They both have the best service and amenities for your money (Note: the Manti House Inn is family friendly. Last anniversary we just brought our six month old with us, and it was great!)
DH and I gtalk links to these site when we discover a new romantic song.
We've even made romantic play lists.
This book is a remarkably helpful tool for any couple, and has led to many sweet memories.
Google your local events calenders. Volunteer together at local festivals and theaters, and don''t miss free outdoor movies. Try netflix and redbox. And hug and kiss as much as possible.
Make sure that your sweetheart knows how much they are loved and go spend some time together.
In honor of this romantic post, I hope to switch to a romantic play list filled with the songs we've made memories to.

Monday, July 7, 2008

It never lets up...

So I try to keep my family eating healthy. I try to have the majority of my baby's food be whole, natural, and organic. But I will let her have a taste of what we're eating even if it is unhealthy. Yes that means, ice cream (usually natural), chocolate, small amounts of white flour and rice, refined sugar (see chocolate and ice cram) and fries and chips. Now I try to be careful about these items. Truly moderation, like a lick or a few bites. (Although with fries and chips I don't moderate as much, still they are never from a fast food place and the chips are usually plain kettle chips.) As you can plainly see I try. There are some food I never let her have.
But when you pick up a healthy eating book, goodnight, I feel like such a failure. DH and I are talking about going vegetarian. I try to pick what I buy carefully. But even when I try, I fail And there is corn syrup in everything!!!!! Case in point this morning I picked up some Albertsons chocolate chip muffins, morningstar veggie scramble bites, and 100% whole wheat honey and molasses sweetened gram crackers. I gave my baby a cracker, they smelled wrong, I wondered if it was because they were so healthy. No they had expired in DEC 07!!!! I took the nasty cracker from her and gave her a bite of my muffin. Latter I actually looked at the ingredients of said muffin. I felt so dumb, corn syrup, propylene Glycol (anti-freeze), corn syrup, artificial flavors, so many other crazy preservatives and trans fats to boot. And then there is the fact that there is chocolate and sugar in them. Which health experts would say is an absolute non-no for a one year old. I didn't even bother giving her the morning star thingies. Those thing has the longest craziest ingredients listing. I don't even want to think about how much gmo crops go into those things. Oh and aside from all the crazy chemical ingredients, they have corn syrup too. Should you wonder why I bought such weird food, we went camping last night. We left at 6:30 and DH needed to be to work by 7am so I thought I would just pick up some fruit and muffins. Their fruit wasn't great, so I passed on it. I just grabbed the muffins and the bites without reading the labels. BIG MISTAKE. And apparently I have to remember that store don't check pull dates, we have to do it for them. It kills me that the one truly healthy thing I bought was horribly rancid. To every person out there who writes about what you should and shouldn't eat or let your kids eat, I don't like you today. I feel too overwhelmed and guilty, to handle your rhetoric. Oh and thanks for the kick when I'm down and reminding me that I can't win. I think I'll go pout some more now, and do laundry

Friday, June 27, 2008

They grow up so fast....


Today our sweet girl lost her first tooth. She tripped, hit the window sill, and lost her first tooth. DH was the first responder. Much tears and blood followed. Thank goodness she still nurses! DH found the tooth, it came out roots and all. I'm so grateful he was here for this. Just so everyone knows, baby teeth are not put back in infants. The tooth is just examined for missing pieces. There nothing that can be done, but wait for the years to pass until her adult tooth comes in. (And visit a dentist for any residual problems)

As soon as she was back to her cheerful self, I thought about the grief and shallowness that would ensue over this. This has been a VERY bad day. Aside from something life threatening, today meant facing one of my biggest fears as a mother. Despite my best efforts, she crashes a lot. In some ways it seems like a matter of time until we had some kind of calamity. So please dear readers, empathy and sharing of first hand experiences is fine. But please try to say nothing to add to my stomach-lurching heartache. It's been a rough day, but since someone I know has a 2 year old with leukemia I'm trying keep this in perspective.


P.S. Click on the picture to check out more works by Jenedy Paige.

Thursday, June 26, 2008

This is So Disappointing....


Supreme Court rules in favor of gun ownership rightsAP - 1 hour, 23 minutes ago
WASHINGTON - The Supreme Court ruled Thursday that Americans have a constitutional right to keep guns in their homes for self-defense, the justices' first major pronouncement on gun control in U.S. history.

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I dream of an America where our children's lives and safety matters, too bad it's just a dream....


http://www.millionmommarch.org/#
http://www2.stopthenra.com/

What really sickens me is when you Google about this topic, most of what comes up is that the number of children's gun deaths per year (500+) is so small that it's an acceptable loss.
NO CHILD'S DEATH IS AN ACCEPTABLE LOSS!!

Tuesday, June 24, 2008

Go, Go, Go Ricki!


Once upon a time I never would have imagined how proud I could be of Ricki Lake. She and director Abby Epstein (seen above) made an incredible film called the Business of Being Born. Every woman should see this film. I adored it. They never touch on unassisted childbirth, but other than that I felt they did a wonderful job on the topic. The film is filled with facts and extremely knowledgeable people, this is no fluff piece. The film is so well made that Ricki Lake freaked out the ACOG and AMA. In the first version of their anti-home birth resolution they actually named her. Talk about the little film that could. This film scared a ginormous lobbying group. Check out these videos from news programs that have covered this non-to-veiled attack.
Ricki Lake I am so proud of you! If more women start having happy birth experiences, your trails will not be in vain. I hope this is the turn of the tide.

Monday, June 23, 2008

Fighting Off the AMA




The American Medical Association (AMA) has decided that the woman folk are getting too uppity and we must be put in our place. Place you may ask? The hospital. At the behest of the the American Collage of Gynecologists and Obstetrics (ACOG) the AMA has made a formal resolution against home birth and are now going to work at legislating away a woman's right to birth at home. Now you need to understand the AMA and the ACOG are representing the best interests of it's members, not you! Birth is where the big bucks are in the hospital industry. If you birth at home, they lose money. Thanks to a heightened awareness about home birth by films such as the Business of Being Born and celebrity homebirthers like Cindy Crawford, Ani Defranco, Charlotte Church, John McGinley and Dave Matthews, to name a few. Also while the number of woman choosing homebirth in America is about 1% on average, it is increasing. It's increasing because studies are showing that it is just as safe, if not safer to birth at home. And because the medical establishment wants birthing woman to be nice, quiet and compliant. This is a turf war, but the turf is your body. You may not want to birth at home, but are you OK with them taking that right away from you and your daughters? Do you really think your body should belong to the AMA?

Here is a very thorough blog post on this important matter http://rixarixa.blogspot.com/

Think about this if the AMA and ACOG have their way, as soon as you decide to keep a pregnancy your bodily rights end. Women it is time to stand up and fight for your rights and your body.

Motherhood Based Feminism


There is the false notion out there that feminists have better things to do than be stay-at-home mothers or even mothers at all. Even a truly wrong idea that educated women who choose to be a mothers/stay-at-home mothers, are flying in the face of all that generations of feminists have fought for. The thought being that stay at home mothers are apathetic and/or ungrateful for their foremothers work and struggles.

On the contrary I am a stay at home mom and I consider myself a feminist. I think the height of a woman's power can be found in motherhood. As a woman I can make, birth, and breastfeed a baby, something a man can never do. As a stay at home mom I am the one teaching my daughter about the world, which is a sure fire way to change it. I am the one who will teach her about womanhood and her rights as a woman. I think that feminism should be about respecting ourselves and our bodies as women, not in trying to show we are as just good as a man. I think true feminists should take issue with not mothers, but with the degradation of women through most forms of media especially porn, horror films, and advertising (sex sells). As feminists we shouldn't be content with a woman's bodily rights being mearly her access to an abortion. Why aren't feminists appalled by "Flash Fridays". Should the only thing we work for and care about be the work place, no! I suppose this is some sort of new feminism. But my friend had an important, but often overlooked perspective, feminism will keep being redefined by our daughters. In one generation women where trying to get the right to leave there home, now many woman are trying to claim there right to be there. I know women who's husbands wont let them be at home with their children. As mothers I believe it is our right to be there with them. I am grateful for the fruits of the feminists from every generation, they didn't start in the sixties and I hope they don't end there. Feminism will continue if we are the ones teaching our daughters and sons about it. I believe that teaching them will be a lot easier if we are fully present in their lives. I am sad that feminism a has become so narrowly defined and involves losing so much of who we've been. Here's to a new feminism which honors and respects us as woman, not in how we can be "as good" as a man. Motherhood is where our power lies and it's high time we claim it.

Wednesday, June 18, 2008

You have got to be kidding me!

McCain calls for building 45 new nuclear reactors (AP)
AP - Sen. John McCain called Wednesday for the construction of 45 new nuclear reactors by 2030 and pledged $2 billion a year in federal funds "to make clean coal a reality," measures designed to reduce dependence on foreign oil.
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OK seriously, this is dangerous. We do not need more nuclear waste in this country. And we do not need to keep losing coal miners lives. Coal mining is archaic and should be abandoned for real clean energy. Like wind or solar. Wind and solar have there problems, sure, but they don't kill. Also there is no such thing as "clean coal", there is so much toxic waste involved. This is such a repugnant misnomer. Oh McCain never ceases to appal me.

Chocolate Heaven Recipe


I just read a pleasant lds novel by Joni Hilton. It's called the Ten-Cow Wives Club, each chapter ends with the recipe for the food mentioned in the chapter. That is where I found this recipe. It makes it's own chocolate sauce people.

IT MAKES IT'S OWN SAUCE!!! :D


Chocolate Heaven

1 cup flour
1/2 cup sugar
6 tablespoons baking cocoa, divided
1 1/2 teaspoons baking powder
1/2 teaspoon salt
1/2 cup milk
3 Tablespoons vegetable oil
1 cup packed brown sugar
1 3/4 cups hot water

Vanilla Ice Cream, optional


Combine flour, sugar, 3 tablespoons cocoa, baking powder, and salt in a large bowel. Stir in milk and oil until smooth. Pour into a greased 8 inch square baking pan. Combine brown sugar and 3 Tablespoons cocoa; sprinkle over batter. Pour hot water over top, but do not stir. Bake at 350 degrees F (175 degrees C) for 40 to 45 minutes. It makes it's own sauce, so serve it in bowls.

Serves 6-8


I made this with a friend for our husbands on Fathers day. We served it with chocolate honey whipped cream. It was sensational and extremely rich. I think I may make it again tonight.